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GENDER POLITICS
juggling, too – researchers
have discovered that women’s
brains have a larger corpus collusum,
the group of nerve fibres that connect the
left and right hemispheres of the brain.
Translation: women are speedier at
transferring data between the two sides,
making us much more flexible and better
at multitasking.
“The higher within a company you
rise, the more likely it is you will be
overseeing various projects, as opposed
to concentrating on just one task, so
the female multi-tasking gene is an
invaluable leadership skill,” says
Catherine Kaputa, author of The Female
Brand (Davies-Black Publishing, £16.99).
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When it comes to leadership skills,
women’s trump card is undoubtedly
superior emotional intelligence. Even
President Obama knows that when it
comes to empathy, communication skills
and intuition, women leave men in the
dust. He recently acknowledged the
difference between the sexes’ natural
empathy were behind his decision to
nominate a woman, Judge Sonia
Sotomayor, to the Supreme Court.
A high emotional IQ is increasingly
recognised as being the most useful asset
in the workplace. Traditionally, emphasis
was placed on left-brain skills, the linear,
logical and traditionally male functions
controlled by the brain’s left hemisphere.
But according to Daniel Pink, business
analysts and author of A Whole New Mind:
Why Right Brainers Will Rule the Future
(Marshall Cavendish, £9.99), companies are
learning the value of right-brain talents
(empathy, inventiveness, communication)
which are typically female qualities. “Those
are the abilities that matter most in today’s
world,” he says. Right-hand brain skills
(held by men) are increasingly vulnerable
because computers can do their work.
What’s valuable now, at work, are those
skills that can’t be replicated by a machine.
Skills that women naturally excel at. It’s
hardly groundbreaking news to learn that
women are better at reading non-verbal
clues than men. Who hasn’t had to spell out
a toxic atmosphere at a dinner party to their
boyfriend when every woman at the table
clocked it hours ago? We’re better at
reading the emotions written on people’s
faces and noting their body language.
Why? The female brain develops from
the front backwards while men’s develop
the opposite way round. It means that
women have a better-developed frontal
cortex, which is the emotional centre of
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the brain that controls our empathy and
intuition. We also have that thicker corpus
callosum, which provides a swifter
superhighway for processing social
messages, such as reading the morale
of the group, or the mood of a colleague.
It helps to give women another source
of information beyond rational analysis.
“Women’s physiological differences
mean female bosses can pick up on
unspoken signals of frustration and
confusion in the workplace. When people
feel listened to and understood – they pay
you back by liking you and supporting
you in return,” explains Kaputa. This
skill is particularly useful in the current
precarious working environment.
“Women’s superior emotional intelligence
makes them more skilled at building
emotional ties and fostering a sense of
‘we’re all in this together’ which gets better
results from staff who feel like they’re
invested in the outcome too.”
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COMMUNICATORS
“NOW, LET ME
JUST SORT OUT THIS
RECESSION NONSENSE”
Listen to your partner’s phone
conversation – is it peppered with more
grunts and quotes from Flight Of The
Conchords than actual exchanges of
information? Thought so. That’s because
women are generally much better
communicators as our brains are better
“Women’s inclusive leadership style
means they lead in a way that doesn’t
seek to have power over people”
networked for language. Girls start
speaking around a month before boys,
use a wider vocabulary much earlier and
statistics prove we are far better readers.
According to a research by Louannn
Brizendine, author of The Female Brain
(Bantam Books, £8.99), adult women can
process 20,000 words a day compared
to 7,000 a day for adult men. That’s
because we have 11% more brain cells
in the planum temporale in the brain,
the area that deals with perceiving and
processing language.
Our superior language skills make us
better communicators at work and mean
we can develop stronger relationships
with staff and clients. Maureen Mills,
who runs one of London’s leading
restaurant PR companies, Network
London, agrees. “It’s all about relationships
and an empathetic approach. I try to get
under the skin of my clients to understand
how they work in both their restaurants
and their private lives. It makes it more
personal and a bit more nurturing, which
women naturally do more than men.”
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Traditional stereotype gender roles
have a significant impact on emotional
evolution. As women looked after the
family and home, they delegated chores to
the children, came up with solutions when
food was scarce and generally involved
everyone in keeping the cave shipshape.
Men went out to hunt. Solo. With only the
forest to answer to. And so women ended
up developing a skill that’s invaluable
in today’s workplace. It’s been named
transformational managing, which means
that women take on a more collective
approach to leadership – encouraging
more open discussion, cultivating talent
and sharing credit. As Kaputa puts it:
“In general, women are more comfortable
with a management style that is less
concerned with a rigid hierarchy. That
more inclusive, collegial style is what
gets results in global companies today.”
Men, on the other hand, tend to have
a more directive management style.
Historically, they're used to a succeed-
or-fail mentality that they simply reward
obvious success and punish mistakes.
It doesn’t take long to work out which
one gets the best results. Kaputa says:
“Women’s inclusive leadership style means
they lead in a way that doesn’t seek to have
power over people but empowers others
instead. Consulting others on important
decisions, conducting brainstorming
sessions and giving public credit to people
when they contribute – it all results in
loyal, committed, hardworking colleagues
and employees.”
So there you have it, what women have
known all along – females are naturally
better suited to taking the lead at work.
And after years of hammering away at the
glass ceiling, it might sound like a radical
about-turn to suggest that we’re actually
primed for a take-over, but the figures
have got our backs. It’s now estimated
that women currently own 48% of the
nation’s personal wealth, set to rise
to 60% by 2025. And, by 2033, according
to research commissioned by Microsoft,
the UK workplace will be dominated by
women. “The 21st century is the era of
female leadership style,” says Kaputa.
“Today’s companies need flexible
leaders who can lead through
inspiration, not dictatorship.
It’s time for women to step up.”
Annoyingly, men are
naturally better at…
SPEEDY
DECISIONS
While women 1 are more likely to
procrastinate, men
are more confident and faster at
making decisions. This style of
decision-making instils trust and
respect in employees and makes
them feel like their leader knows
best. “Stop second-guessing
yourself,” advises The Female Brand
author Catherine Kaputa. “Try
talking through your self-doubts
with a third party so that you can
lead your team with confidence.”
SELF-
PROMOTION
It’s unnatural for 2 a woman to ‘big’
herself up – she
hopes her work does the talking
– but men will happily make
sure everyone knows what he’s
achieved. And because women are
more likely to take a collaborative
approach to decision making they
often end up getting less credit for
the result. “Women need to find
their own style for self promotion,”
says Kaputa. “Rather than talking
about yourself, tell a story about
a project and how you helped
solve a difficult situation. That
way, you’re not bragging about
yourself, you’re telling a story about
a business event that portrays you
in a positive way.”
NETWORKING
While we might be
regularly praised for
3 our communication
skills and are
naturally better relationshipbuilders,
we’re actually not as
adept at networking as men. That’s
because women are reluctant to
build ‘transactional’ relationships as
they feel unnatural to us. We prefer
deeper relationships with a smaller
number of people, while men are
happier with a large number of
shallow relationships. “This comes
down to realising the value that
a large network can bring to your
business,” explains Kaputa. “Resist
assuming that ‘networking’ is fake
– both parties know this is a
professional relationship and
therefore doesn’t adhere to
the same rules.”